With your new Certificate, you start applying for jobs here and there and you realize that Yes, you’ve been sending emails for months but responses are not coming through. You check the spam folder – NOTHING.
Like any normal human being, you start wondering whether it’s something to do with how you present yourself.
I spent the recent Christmas Day in Hospital. And No, It was not me. They are now Okay, we thank God.
You may be curious and want to know how Christmas in the Hospital feels like and if there are any lessons; well, you learn a lot. Especially that your patience will be highly tested. Above everything else, It was a normal Day. Life was balancing itself and It was simply our turn to be in the Hospital
And as always, let’s claim progress, not perfection. As long as you are moving forward, no matter how slow, be proud of your steps. You are doing well.
She went away fully aware that whatever this date was about, her therapist would be glad to know that she is secretly an enabler of confusing people who keep coming back, after many years.
Sometimes they come back to confuse her, other times they help her find herself. And finally, perhaps, this could be a starting point of their therapy sessions.
There’s also pressure from parents and the society for you to get married. What they don’t understand is this stage is as crucial as it comes. For instance, I now understand that marriage and someone getting a baby is not the same thing. You may get a baby before marriage with someone then realize this is not someone you will get married to. The dynamics again. And there are those that get married then have babies. Both instances are fine because people have personal reasons as to why they do the things they do.
You will surprise yourself how far you can go. Even with fear, keep learning and keep pushing.
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Men, what’s your story on that haircut that did not go like you wanted? I’ve shared my story here. Ladies, I know you can relate. Please, read and share yours .
Good morning wonderful people! So, I created a blog. It’s home, where we shall be sharing life together. And this, is my first post, I’m thrilled!